#YOU_FALL_IN_LOVE_BEFORE_GROWING_IN

#YOU_FALL_IN_LOVE_BEFORE_GROWING_IN_LOVE.

- August 27, 2017

Now, I hear some of you saying the “FALL IN LOVE” phrase is too cliché... Yes of course, I agree with anyone who thinks so but that doesn't make it less-meaningful ...It has also been abused and misused by us.

Because it's easy to say and we think “All the world loves a lover” (that's an idiom)... We tend to let it proceed from our lips even when we don't mean it.
That's why someone who met you 2weeks ago could just call you up the next week to say (s)he thinks he's in love with you...
Like dammnn, a 2week old baby haven't even opened it's eyes yet, No, that's too quick, you know.

Alright, so this is it, there's nothing cliché about falling in love 😍 ... You need to fall in love before you grow in love.
It takes time to #FALL_IN_LOVE and it takes more time to #GROW_IN_LOVE.Of course... Everything in life has a due process,so does LOVE too.

#FALLING_IN_LOVE i think requires two people who are attracted to each other or have found some qualities which they find appealing in the other and have decided to give it a try.so falling in love I think should be a seed. A prerequisite for growing in love if I may say.

Now that brings them to the place of ⤵⤵

#GROWING_IN_LOVE (The nurturing stage).
Of course, this requires two people who are willing to make it work(Mind you, love is not a job so it doesn't need to suck you off your energy, if it's right... It should be stress-free, if not, I think it's time you have review)

Now this stage is a critical one because this where you get to get into the trunk to discover the whole junk(mind you, this is a phrase so, 'junk' here could mean good and bad).

This is a stage where you begin to water the seed which you have planted.
You tend to become selfless,you begin to learn to share your time, your resources, etc.
You start to tolerate(not endure)...
This is the stage where it's not too late to go back if you start growing and it doesn't work out...

Love shouldn't be stressful as I said earlier on... It's something that should come naturally... If you find out at a point that you're finding it hard to grow with a certain person, then don't make the mistake of forcing it, maybe it was never meant to be.

But if it's working... Keep growing, keep building... You'll be shocked how stronger the bond could get If you take the

process and leave out the whole rush thingy...